Understanding & Reducing
Tantrums

A short video course for parents of children ages 0–6, created with warmth and grounded in science. Watch at your own pace — revisit any lesson anytime.

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The Course

10 Lessons · Watch in Order or Jump Around

Each lesson is a YouTube Short. After most lessons, a short quiz helps you lock in the key ideas.

1
Introduction
It's normal and natural for a young child to break down. Let's make sure we don't break down, too. The core skills that naturally reduce tantrums over time — and how to take this course.
Further reading: "Dear Parent" by Donna Goertz
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Definition
The term "tantrum" is thrown around a lot. Here is a definition widely recognized by today's top scientific experts, so we're on the same page.
Quick check · Lesson 2
1. According to scientific experts, what is a tantrum most accurately described as?
2. At what age range are tantrums most commonly observed?
3. What does a tantrum tell us about a child's emotional development?
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3
Timing
We identify 5 distinct moments of a tantrum — before, during, and after — and the best behaviours to foster at each stage. Four videos for this lesson.
Quick check · Lesson 3
1. How many distinct moments does this course identify across the arc of a tantrum?
2. Why is it useful to identify the moment you are in during a tantrum?
3. Which phase of a tantrum is generally the best time to talk with your child about what happened?
4. When your child is in the middle of a tantrum, what should guide which technique you use?
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Mindset
Your general awareness, mindset, and how you approach tantrums dramatically improve not only your experience, but your child's experience during these difficult moments.
Quick check · Lesson 4
1. How does a parent's mindset affect their child during a tantrum?
2. Which of these best describes a helpful mindset when a tantrum begins?
3. Viewing tantrums as a normal part of development (rather than a problem to fix) is an example of:
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Home Setup
Creating a home environment that supports independence naturally supports your child with calmness, cooperation, and emotional regulation.
Quick check · Lesson 5
1. What is the main benefit of setting up a home environment that supports a child's independence?
2. Why does a child's ability to do things independently reduce frustration and tantrums?
3. Which of these is an example of a home setup that supports a child's independence?
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6
Skills
The preparation that helps you develop the skills to manage tantrums: an introduction, then spiritual, physical, and intellectual preparation. Four videos.

Skills intro

Parent preparation

Spiritual

Physical

Intellectual

Skills children can develop:

⏳ Emotional literacy — video in the making
Quick check · Lesson 6
1. The course identifies three types of preparation for parents. Which of these is NOT one of them?
2. What does "spiritual preparation" refer to in this context?
3. What key skill can children develop that helps them with emotional regulation over time?
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7
Bringing It All Together
Combining these tools in real-life parenting situations.
Quick check · Lesson 7
1. When combining the tools from this course in a real situation, what should a parent focus on first?
2. This course teaches that reducing tantrums over time is the result of:
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8
Further Techniques That Help
Visualization, being with (not doing for), observation, singing, leaving. How these techniques help both parent and child feel safer, calmer, and more emotionally prepared.

Further Techniques (Part 2)

Quick check · Lesson 8
1. What does "being with — not doing for" mean in this context?
2. How can visualization help a parent during a difficult moment?
3. In which situation might "leaving" (briefly stepping away) be an appropriate technique?
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Ongoing Help & Support
Continue growing with regular guidance, new material, direct support, and connection with other parents on a similar journey.
Quick check · Lesson 9
1. Why is ongoing support valuable for parents working on these skills?
2. What is the overall goal of the ZeroToSixParents course on tantrums?
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Tantrums Transition / Meal Prep
Tantrums are naturally connected to specific situations and times of day — transitions like mornings, evenings, bedtime, and leaving or entering the home. This ever-evolving lesson shares examples and suggestions that may help your family through these moments.
Quick check · Lesson 10
1. Why are transitions (mornings, mealtimes, bedtime, leaving/entering the home) common triggers for tantrums?
Go Deeper

Further Reading

Articles and resources to explore alongside the video lessons.

Parent Tips Infographic
A quick-glance visual summary of core parenting tips to keep handy.
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Quick Reference

Things to Remember

Core ideas from Laurent to return to whenever you need a reset.

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Stay regulated first

Your calm is contagious. Regulate yourself before trying to help your child.

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Connect, then redirect

Acknowledge the feeling before trying to solve the behaviour.

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It will pass

Every tantrum ends. Your presence is what your child needs most.

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Environment matters

A home that supports independence naturally reduces emotional overwhelm.